Sounding is the practice of sliding a slender toy (usually a metal sound or sonde) down the urethra for pleasure. While it is typically done on folks with penises, women who have vaginas can also enjoy urethral stimulation.
Many people worry that sounding will be painful, but it should never be – especially for beginners if they play slowly and use plenty of lube. The urethra is exceptionally sensitive, and it can feel wonderful to be touched there.
What is urethral sounding?
Urethral sounding is a form of stimulation that involves inserting a toy into the urethra. It is a popular form of sexual play, and it can be extremely pleasurable when done correctly. Sounding is a great way to stimulate the genitals and it can be used in conjunction with other toys as well.
The urethra is lined with nerves and it passes through sensitive areas like the penis head (glans) and the clitoris, making it a very sensitive area for many people. A sounding toy stimulates these areas and it can also cause sensations in the prostate if the toy is inserted deeply enough. Many people report that urethral sounding feels very pleasurable and some even find it addictive.
One of the most important things to remember when performing urethral sounding is to always use a generous amount of lube. This is essential for preventing discomfort and pain, and it can also help reduce the risk of infection. It is also important to wash and sanitize the sound and hands before and after a session.
While urethral sounding is not recommended by most urologists, it can be an enjoyable kink for those who are willing to take the risks. If you are interested in trying urethral sounding, it is best to start small and work your way up to larger objects.
Why do people do it?
People engage in sounding for a variety of reasons. Some of the most common benefits include heightened sensation and orgasm, a sense of vulnerability, and a feeling of power (especially in domination or submission situations). Others find pleasure in stimulating their p-spot, as the urethra passes through the prostate gland on its way to or from the bladder. Finally, the taboo nature of penetration of a body part not normally penetrated can be very kinky for some.
It should be noted that sounding did not start out as a fetish, but rather as a legitimate medical procedure. Sounds, or sondes, are medical tools that are used to gently probe, unblock, and expand passages inside the body, including the urethra and uterus. Sounding is more common with penises, though some people with vaginas also partake in the practice. Most commonly, a sound is inserted into the urethral opening and then down toward the bladder.
What are the benefits of urethral sounding?
In the non-kinky context of a medical exam, a sound (or sonde) is used to gently probe, unblock or expand a passage inside the body. For those in the kinky world, urethral sounding can provide heightened sensation and pleasure in orgasm (though not all who try it are successful). It can also be used for control or humiliation in a domination/submission situation. While sounding is primarily done with penises, women can also partake.
Since the urethra passes through the prostate gland on its way to and from the bladder, many men claim that stimulating the P-spot with a urethral sound is one of the main reasons they enjoy this kinky activity. The taboo nature of penetration, particularly in a part of the body that is not commonly touched, is another draw for many.
Before beginning, both the “top” and the bottom should wash their hands and the genital area with antibacterial soap. Then, the top should put on a pair of gloves and dip the tip of a urethral sound in a bowl of betadine solution. The sound should be inserted into the urethral opening and maneuvered up or down to find the best angle for reaching the prostate. Then, lube can be applied and the sound manipulated until an orgasm is achieved. The bottom should remain reclined while the sound is in place, and the process should be repeated as often as desired. Ideally, sounding should not cause any injuries to the urethra. However, if improper tools are used, or the urethra is stretched, there could be serious complications.
What are the risks of urethral sounding?
While sticking medical instruments in the urethra may seem like a terrifying idea to many people, sounding is actually very safe as long as you take the proper precautions. First and foremost, it’s essential to use a lot of lube when you’re playing with the sound. This helps the toy glide in and out of the urethra without any resistance, and it also protects the tissue from irritation.
It’s also important to wash the sound thoroughly before and after each session. Keeping the sound clean is especially crucial if you’re using it with a partner, as a dirty sound can introduce bacteria into the urethra and cause infections or even bladder or prostate cancer.
Finally, it’s crucial to be patient and gentle. Trying to force the sound into your urethra too quickly can actually damage it and lead to discomfort. Be sure to take your time, and don’t be afraid to stop if you’re feeling uncomfortable.
Some men who are into urethral sounding also like to pair it with other fetishes, such as sex and masturbation. For example, curved sounds (also known as Van Burens, after President Martin Van Buren) can be used by dominant men to play with their submissive partners in an erotically painful way, as well as to control whether or not the submissive gets an erection.
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